Guest Book

*Just wanted to say this sounds a lot like what Vickie Dearth had, only it
took them so long to find it. She had a valve replaced due to a blood
disease and put on resp and made comatose as well. She is doing well now,
but has a lot of rehab to do. Just to let you know Jeff is in our prayers.
Sincerely
Mike & Connie Overmyer
 
*Just know our thoughts and prayers  are with you. Positive thoughts and prayers are
a pretty powerful thing we will keep them coming. 
Sincerely, John and Michelle Allynand family 

*I am praying for Jeff and the Willhite family. Jeff has been a life
long friend of mine and I always look forward to seeing him when I come
home to visit from Indy. I was shocked when I heard the news today. I
will continue to pray for him and pray for a speedy recovery. God Bless
you!
Love, Ryan Tusing and family!

*Lee, Mike, Gladys & Henry,
If we can be of any help during this emergency please let us know.
I have a car and can transport to and from South Bend Hospital
or run errands.. Please do call or write
Jeff and your family will be in our prayers.
Bob Breyfogle, Doris & Kathryn
*574-842-3258*
bob.breyfogle@gmail.com
bob.breyfogle@yahoo.com

* I just want to say that Jeff and you (his family) are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jeff is an amazing person.He can bring life to any room he walks in. If youneed
anything please donot hesitate to ask.
Jeanine Owens
 
 
*I've known Jeff for a few years now, but its not until just the last few months that
I really got to know him. Chad, Jeff and I decided to go to Washington D.C. this
past month. I guess I should say Chad and Jeff decided to go and I tagged along. I
laugh now about all the stuff we did, and all the crazy things that happened. From
almost running out of gas, to finding out our hotel room only had 2 beds for 3 guys,
to being caught in a traffic jam in the bad part of the city, our trip was a true
adventure that I will never forget.
The first night we were there we got in about 1 a.m. Jeff and Chad decided that
since they were both so used to being up working nights that they were going to
start planning the different sights we would see while on the trip. All I was
worried about was getting to sleep, but that was the last thing they were going to
let me do. Both Jeff and Chad teased me about being so tired and would not let me
go to sleep, no matter how much I whined and complained.
Another day we were there, the two of them decided we would go see what I like to
call "some stupid caves". Those two thought they were the coolest thing in the
world, and for me I was having a hard time appreciating them for what they were
worth. Jeff kept asking me if I was having fun and I kept telling him that I
couldn't believe that we paid $18 to see "some stupid caves". He couldn't get over
how funny it was that I was unable to appreciate them.
Jeff and I would have trouble sleeping in the hotel room, because it was so quiet
and hot at night, so we decided after being there a night, that we were going fan
shopping. Although we had a Tom-Tom, we couldnt find a Wal-Mart, or any other store
that was open for that matter, to save our lives. Finally we came across a Home
Depot that was 30 minutes from closing, so Jeff and I ran in there to buy our fans. 
We searched the store and asked at least 3 different people where we could find
these fans, and finally came across them tucked into a corner. We each bought one,
and slept much better the rest of the trip.
While on our way to Gettysburgh, we stopped at a huge strip mall to do some
shopping. Somehow we found ourselves in a cologne store, and I can honestly say Ill
never spend more time in one than we did that day. The woman behind the counter
spent over 45 minutes with Jeff, and the rest of us spraying over 35 little strips
of paper trying to help Jeff fine the perfect cologne. He had so many questions for
each one he smelled, and had to get the life story on each scent. In the end, he
did end up buying one bottle, and I dont think the woman helping us was ever more
relieved to see us leave.
Overall, our trip was a lot of fun, and a real bonding experience for all of us. We
teased eachother enough throughout the trip that if we weren't stronger people, we
wouldnt have been able to take it. Jeff is a great friend to us all, and I pray
that everything will work out. I hope we will have plenty of years to tease Jeff
about this whole situation, any many more memories to make with him.
-Brandon Cooper
 
 

* Photo from Culver Emergency Services Softball game June 2008-submitted by Jeanine Owens

*The members of the Culver Fire Department send our thoughts and well wishes to Jeff
and his family, and hope for a speedy recovery. 

*On behalf of the Clerk's Office as well as my family we would like to share
our deepest and sincere thoughts! Jeff is in our prayers and many are
thinking and asking about Jeff. Please feel free at anytime to call upon us
for anything you may need. 
Casey L. Howard
Town of Culver
Clerk-Treasurer

*My prayers are going out for Jeff's recovery. 
Lee,If there is anything that I can do for you or your family, please don't
hesitate to call. 
Diann R. Parsons, C.P.M.
Purchasing Manager
Culver Academies
574-842-8377

*hi, we will pray and keep thinking of you.... the woodward's (tom & donna & family)

*ALL OF OUR LOVE AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS HORRIFIC TIME. WE WISH 
THERE WAS SOMETHING WE COULD DO AND IF AT ANY TIME THERE IS PLEASE LET 
US KNOW!! LYNN AND LANCE OVERMYER

*I worked the football game this past Saturday and had an opportunity to
spend time with Jeff, talking and laughing about work and life in
general. My thoughts and prayers are with you that Jeff makes a full
recovery. He is a great guy and still has a lot of life left to live. 
Pam Baranski
Athletic Department
Culver Academies

*Jeff, we are awaiting your safe return. If there is anything that my
family can do to help your family please contact us. You will be in our
prayers and thoughts until your safe return. 
Daniel R. Cowell MA/MS, ATC

*Dear Wilhite Family,
I just wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with Jeff
and with you all. 
Emily Ryman, Assistant Director
Culver Upper Camp

*Jeff - please stay strong. My thoughts are with you for sure...
Sonny Adkins
Culver Summer Schools & Camps
 
*Dear Willhite family,
We're sorry to hear about Jeff and his hospitalization. My wife and I will
keep Jeff and your family in our prayers. If there is anything that either
of us can do to assist, please don't hesitate to ask.
Ginny and Grant Munroe

*Dear Lee, Mr. and Mrs. Whillhite, and family,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family for Jeff's safe
recovery. The entire community is with you during this time; we are sending
our prayers. 
Our best and love, 
Ginny and Grant Munroe
 
*I have known Jeff for several years, he was part of our team here at
Tri-County Ambulance Service. I have had several experiences working with
Jeff, he was so fun and full of energy and seemed never to let anything get
him down. Jeff has an amazing personality and such a contagious spirit that
you just can't help to be drawn to. I was shocked to hear the unfortunate
news about Jeff. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family and hopeful
that Jeff's strong willed personality will help him through this. If we can
be of any assistance to you please, contact us. We will be thinking of you
and praying for you. Be strong and hopeful, that's what Jeff would want you
to do. 
Respectfully Submitted,
Jackie McKibbin
Tri-County Ambulance Service
 

*Willhite family,
     My name is Ryan Lebo and I work for the Indiana State Police.  I have been assigned to Marshall County for the past eight years and have worked around Jeff several times.  For seven of the last eight years I worked the afternoon shift and looked forward to a coffee break in Culver.  I was always happy to see when Jeff showed up because of his upbeat personality.  Jeff is a good man and you should be very proud.  Jeff also has a strong will to experience life and this will help him with his fight.  My thoughts will be with him and your family.  Don't hesitate to call on the Indiana State Police if we can be of any assistance.
Trooper Ryan Lebo
Indiana State Police
Dist. 24 Bremen

*I was just informed of Jeff's situation. We will be in prayer for Jeff
and the family that God will bless all involved with His grace and
loving hand.
Mike and Anne Chastain 
 
*Prayers and wishes for recovery from me to Jeff and his family. Jeff 
and I go waaaay back - I don't think there was a movie in Culver we 
didn't see together in high school. I have always thought of Jeff as 
a good friend from my days in Culver.
Maggie (Hopkins) Nixon, 10-7-08
 
*Jeff, our positive thoughts and prayers are with you. We hope the doctors
can figure out what needs to be done for a full and speedy recovery. Our
warmest thoughts, Dick and Mary Anna Swennumson
 
*Throughout this incredibly difficult time, Don and I are sending our
heartfelt prayers for a FULL recovery to all of you. 
Rheta Bradke
Admissions Associate
The Culver Academies
 
*To All the Willhite Family: We continue to pray for all of your needs
and are hoping that Jeff will soon be back with us. You have such a
wonderful family! Stay close to each other and we will be here if you
need us.
Dave and Cheryl Adams
 
*Dear Willhite Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with each and every one of you.  I hope that Jeff pulls
through.  He is a very strong individual.  I have a lot of memories of him.
Susan Birk
 
*The Willhite Family,
Jeff is in our thoughts and prayers, as are all of you during this
difficult time.
Doug and Nancy Haberland
 
*Hearing about Jeff was an unbelievable shock. I just saw him helping out
at Gladie's a couple days ago, and of course he's pretty close to my age.
This is so unexpected.
Jeff has been in my thoughts and prayers from the moment I heard, and he
will continue to be. I wish there were something I can do to help. If
there's anything your family needs, please ask, which I'm sure everyone in
town would agree. We all support and care a great deal for Jeff and the
whole Willhite family.
We'll continue to pray and spread the word to others to do so...
Jeff Kenney
 
*Lee, Mike and Jeff's Mom and Dad,
Please know that Ruth, I and our family are deeply saddened with what 
has happened to Jeff. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and we are 
praying for his recovery. Please, if there is anything we can do please 
let us know.
Chuck & Ruth Dilts
 
*Dear Willhite Family
 Our prayers and thoughts are with you and for Jeff's safe recovery.
 God Bless!
Get Well Jeff be strong!
Jim,Ginger Harrington & Family
 
*We miss you! Be strong as we all know what a fighter Jeff can be. Please
let us know if there is anything we can do.
Love The Townsend Family, Tiffanie Townsend EMS #7
 
*Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
God Bless
Bud and Bobbie Ruhnow
 
*Wilhite family,
I was so sorry to hear about Jeff. I know that Jeff is strong and is putting
up a good fight. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Take care and if
there is anything I can do, please do not hesitate to ask.
Julie Bess
 
*I am so sorry to hear of Jeff's illness.  It hardly seems possible for him to be so
sick so quickly.  We prayed for him at exercise class this morning.  My heart goes
out to the whole family.  --Marizetta 
 
*My family has sent out prayers for you and your family. We hope that
you are feeling better soon. Take care. If there is anything that I
can do to help, please let me know.
Kim Caudill
Benefits Administrator
The Culver Educational Foundation
 
*I leave town after three months of bumping into you everywhere only to arrive back
in Phoenix to find out you are in the hospital. Had I known you would take my
departure so hard I would have stayed! 
We are sending you tons of healing thoughts and prayers, Jeff. I fully expect to
see you patrolling the streets of Culver and the Academy when I return in November.
We will be thinking of you until then.
Julie Brooks and family
 
*Please know we are keeping Jeff and the family in our hearts and prayers!
Jeff is very special to Culver and us.
John & Pam
 
*To the Willhite family,
My family's thoughts and prayers are with you, wishing for a speedy recovery of our
dear friend, Jeff. We had a great time at the bonfire last week and hope to enjoy
many more. 
Mark and Linda Couts
 
*Hi -
My name is Marge Hill McCormick and I retired from the Culver Academies' Development
Office in June of 2005. Jeff may not remember me but I remember how friendly and
helpful he was when anyone had a problem. I knew Lee pretty well after working at
the academy for 25 years; I saw him more often. It was always obvious to me that
the boys were from a very good family and always talked with respect. Please be
assured Jeff and the whole family are in my thoughts and prayers; we will put him on
our prayer chain so he will have many people all over the world on his side!!!
God Bless,
Marge
 
*I am so sorry to hear of Jeff's illness. Jeff, Lee and family are in my
thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Julie Melton
 
*Just a note to send the prayers and thoughts from the entire Edgewater
Grille staff. I know from experience the support from friends and even
strangers mean so very much. Please know you are in our thoughts. Sherri
 
*Here is a photo of Jeff and some of our classmates that I wanted to share!
Thoughts and prayers!
Ryan Tusing
Photo from summer of 2005. Class of 1990.
 

 
 
 
*My thoughts and prayers are with Jeff and his family. I've known Jeff
since I was a little kid going to school with him. Now I see him at least
5 days a week at the rootbeer stand. My mom let me know about Jeff's
illness. I'm praying that he gets better soon. Heather Overmyer
 
*Jeff and Family ~ sending you thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Jeff ~ Seems like just the other day you were harassing me about a campfire or
something during good ole' summer camp!!
Please take care and get well soon!
From All the Robertson's - John, Jackie, Chris, Jeff, Josh, Hannah and Dylan
Jackie Robertson
Computer Lab Assistant
White Oak Elementary
 
*Jeff, Lee and family-
I just want you to know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers!
Hang in there! 
Ms. Chris Sheppard
Culver Academy Post Office Supervisor
 
*To the family of Jeff-
 I am so sorry to hear about the condition of Jeff. Our thoughts and prayers are withhim and all of you at this time. 
Monica Bowersox
Cory Reiss
Cindy & Marcus Tilley
Dan Slyh
 
*My thoughts and prayers are with Jeff and you all, anything i can do
please let me know!
Culver isn't as bright as it used to be without you here Jeff!
Chris Otto
 
*Lee and Willhite Family,
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with Jeff and with all of
you.
Tammy Gannon
 
* Dear Willhite Family,
I just wanted to let you know that I am keeping Jeff in my thoughts and
prayers. Keep the faith and remember that Jeff is a fighter.
If there is anything I can help with, please don't hesitate to call. We
are all here to help with anything you might need.
Take care and keep close to each other. Prayer is a powerful thing, and
this town is praying for Jeff's recovery.
Jenny Dikeos
 
*Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
We pray for your full recovery.
Bill & Anna Strong
 
*Jazzy Jeff,  get well soon!!!!
Elizabeth and the girls!!!!
 
*Wilhite Family-
Jeff is one of my favorite people to harass, and I respect his work
tremendously. Our prayers are with you all.
Bill & Linda Browne
 
*Jeff
God be with you and with His help you will beat this.  Please get well as guickly as
you can and we pray it will be very soon.
Hal and Judie
 
*Lee and Family,
My heartfelt prayers go out to you and Jeff. Jeff is such a special
person and means so much to Culver! I always look forward to seeing
Jeff at work; he is so upbeat and brightens the most stressful of days.
If there is anything I can do, please call.
Diane Avery
 
*Oh my goodness, what a shock! Our thoughts and prayers are with all of
you. What a vibrant person Jeff is and will continue to be when he has
recovered! We look forward to seeing that bright smile again, along
with some wise crack!
In Love and Prayer,
Mike and Maria Wagenknecht
 
*JEFF, 
YOU ARE IN MY HEART AND PRAYERS!!! GET WELL SOON NOTHING IS THE SAME
WITHOUT YOU.... YOU AND LEE ARE LIKE BROTHERS TO ME AND YOU GUYS ALWAYS
WILL BE PART OF MY FAMILY... CHUCK WIERINGA 
 
*Jeff,
We are thinking of you and praying for you. We cannot fully comprehend
why this has happened to you, and we do not know the outcome, but we are
praying for the best-for you and for your family. You are strong and
deserving. Keep your faith and fight hard. We hope to connect with you soon. 
All the best.
John Buxton
 
*Hello Jeff and family,
 I had privileged opportunity to work with Jeff at Tri-County Ambulance many
times being his partner. Jeff is so much fun and upbeat all the time. He is an
incredible person and an excellant, gifted EMT. He always knew just what to say
and do for his patient to make them comfortable and feel hopeful. When you do
wake up from that coma, be good to everyone you see. So dude, soon you'll be
telling the docs and nurses what they can do for you so stay hopeful. All our
thoughts and prayers are for you Jeff, your family & friends and a special
wisdom for the docs to recognize the problem for what it is and help you heal so
you can get back to us soon. 
Sincerely, Your friend
Debi Datema
 
*Our thoughts are are with you and your family , Terry and suz Wakefield
 
*I have known Jeff for years. He is strong and will get thru this. He is in my thoughts.
Travis Thompson
Argos Fire Department
 
*Gladise, Just received the email from Millie and Rich telling of Jeff's condition.  I had received an email prayer request 
from Karen Odem yesterday afternoon but she didn't know any details; just that he was encountering some 
breathing problems and was taken to St.Joe at Plymouth.  We want you to know that Jeff
is in our prayers as well as all the others on our Wesley prayer chain.  We have lots of good "prayers" in our circle.  
Didn't want to call you as we know what it's like to have a loved one in the hospital; there is no time left to talk on the phone.   
Take care of yourself.  Let us know if we can help. Love, Ed and Lora
 
*On behalf of the Plymouth Emergency Room, our thoughts are prayers are with Jeff and
his family. 
 
*Our thoughts and prayers are with the Willhite family. We hope Jeff gets
well soon.
Bret and Teri Baker
 
*I am new to Culver this being my third year as the school's and camp's
Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I have been in my career for over 25
years working in much different settings than Culver. I absolutely
appreciate the Security personnel as at times when I have needed them
they are immediately a consistent professional support. Jeff and I have
had numerous times when he would work with me to assist in de-escalating
a situation. This happened as recently as two weeks ago. I requested
that the nurse contact security for support. Jeff arrived: cool calm and
collected. As I advised him and another colleague of the concerns, Jeff
responded by stating, "When this lady calls I know that she needs me and
appreciates my work!" He could not have been more correct. I enjoy
Jeff's sense of humor and his ability to "lighten" a tense intervention.
Jeff is a true gem of a person. I am so glad to know him. I just
returned from a training workshop out-of-state today. Chuck just stopped
by the Health Center and looked rather pre-occupied as he walked by my
open door. I asked him what's up... and he proceeded to fill me in on
Jeff's circumstance. I am shocked and saddened... my thoughts are with
you Jeff and your family. You are a wonderful part of my Culver
experiences. I will keep you close in my thoughts.
Dottie Curtis, MSW/LCSW/CAC
Culver Academies/Culver Summer Camps
 
*Hello I work with Jeff at culver educational foundation, He is a great
worker it seems he always finds the problems, of course then he call's
me and together we take care of what was wrong. If not we make sure we
call someone in who can. He's a great person to talk to always cheerful.
He always feels me in on what is going on in his life. Well I could go
on and on but most of all he is a great friend and I want to give my
best wishes and prayers I know he is tough, tell him that Carl Tolson
said get better and get back to work. My prayers to all of his family and friends.
 
*Jeff, Lee and Family,
We are thinking of you, you are all in our thoughts and prayers! Jeff's 
a fighter, I just know he will make it through this difficult time. 
Amber Taylor & The Bigley Family
 
*to jeff's family...
he is a great person and could always make you laugh..he hung around the Click Inn
when it was open with Mark Click and i got to know him well..he would do anything
for anyone and never would ask why..just the type of guy he is..my thougths and
prayers go out to Jeff and the family..may everything  turn around for you.lots of
love and prayer..
jen hatter from The Click Inn
 
*Our prayers and thoughts are with you, Jeff. We pray for your family, too. It is
difficult to sit and wait. We pray for your complete recovery.
Ralph and Barbara Winters 
 
*My thought and prayers go out the Jeff and his family.  I cant even begin to know
what you all are going through.   Thoughts/prayers also go out to Culver EMS.
Ronda Calhoun
EMT/Argos EMS
 
*Dear Lee and all your family, Jeff is such a cheerful, caring person. 
He is in our prayers. THE WHOLE TOWN OF CULVER is pulling for him. All 
our love to Jeff and the family. David & Mary Baker
 
*Dear Mrs. Wilhite and Lee, Please know that Carolyn and I are 
thinking of you and Jeff. Our deepest prayers are with you.
Bob Kline
 
*You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. 
Kerry and Stephanie Pinder
 
*Jeff we wanted you to know that in this your most difficult time, Donna &
I are praying for you. You have always been there to lend a hand and give
a smile. We have called our kids, both Academy grads, and they, too, are
praying for you. You have always been one of those people that brightens
those you come in contact with here at Culver.
God Bless You.
Scott & Donna Huberty
 
*My prayers got out to the willhite family.If I can do anything at all to help please
let me know. Peggy Lowry and family 
 
*Dear Willhite Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with Jeff and you at this time. 
Jane Grund
 
*Family & Friends,
My heartfelt prayers and thoughts sent to you in this distressing time. 
Sincerely,
Tammy M. Shaffer
 
*Our thoughts and prayers are with you Jeff, and with your family.
We wish you a super fast recovery and we all hope to see you out and 
about in the community soon.
John Sage
Tim, Suzanne, Colleen, Melanie and families
 
*Our prayer are with you and your family.
Chris and Pat Renneker
 
*Jeff  my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family  ,We know you are a
fighter get well. Kim Milliser EMS # 24
 
*It's still hard to believe that Jeff is fighting so hard to live when I just
saw him Thursday out at the horsemanship and he was letting us in to the
Armory. It was as usual, he was giving me a hard time. It was always in good
fun and he makes every encounter fun. He picks on me for being short even
though I am probably a couple of inches taller than him. Jeff - get better
so I can prove those couple of inches. My families thoughts and prayers go
out to the Willhite family during this time of need.
Brian, Julie, and Jacob Manns
 
*Jeff and the Willhite family,
Jeff I hope you get well soon, you and your family are in my prayers.
If I can help in anyway please ask.
Best Wishes,
John Miller
 
*Lee, Mike, Gladys & Henry
I am sorry to hear about Jeff's condition and will keep him and all of you in my
thoughts and prayers. 
Mark Click
 
*I have known Jeff his whole life and not once have run into him that he didnt make
me smile or laugh.He devoted his life to helping others.He will be deeply missed but
always remembered with a smile. He told me he would keep an eye on my son Troy and
im sure he will keep his word.please except our deepest
sympathy.                                          
Peggy Lowry,Shawna,Tyler,Troy 
 
*Jeffs Family
My deepest sympathys goes out to all of you.  I worked with Jeff at Tri-County and
can say that I am a better person for knowing him.  A kinder person i have never
know, he was always good spirited and fun to be around.  You all are in our hearts
and prayers.  May God be with you in this time of sorrow.
Nummy(Derek Patterson)
 
*You are in our hearts and prayers at this difficult time.
Doug and Amy Smith Family
 
*I just want you to know that I've always enjoyed Jeff, in school and out. I can't
tell you how wonderful he was with my Dad,...the many times he was taken to the
hospital....and the attention he gave him...and me.
This is very hard to believe...just know MANY are praying for your family. He will
be missed by many.
Sincerely,
Sandy Master (Guidance Secretary CCHS)
 
*I am so sorry. Jeff is going to be missed greatly. 
Jeanine Owens
#4
 
*I just read about Jeff this (Wed) morning. It was just one week ago today I saw
Jeff at "Gladies" As always he was happy and friendly his usual self. Little did I
know that would be my last memories of Jeff. The Matre'D at Gladies...
I am truly sorry to hear of Jeff's passing..my thoughts and prayers are with all of
you.
Mike Hudson
 
*Our thoughts and prayers for the Willhite family...We will miss him....I especially
will miss his HUGS.....you could never see him that he didn't give you a hug to make
it through the day.....He brightened the ER whenever he happened by.......mary ann
and the rest of the ER crew at Plymouth
 
*Jeff was a great friend. It's hard to believe that he is gone. He will
continue to live in our hearts forever. To the Willhite family I am so
sorry for your loss as you can see Jeff was well respected in the community.
I have so many wonderful memories of growing up with Jeff that I will hold
close to me. God Bless Jeff and God be with the Willhite family.
Ryan Tusing 
CCJSHS Class of 1990
 
*Dear Friends,
My heart goes out to all of you.  I am so sorry.  I shall always remember Jeff as
caring, cheerful, and fun-loving.   His passing is a loss to all of you and, indeed,
to all of us.  Please know you have my sympathy and prayers in your loss.
With love, Marizetta
 
*We are shocked to learn of this news.  We didn't know Jeff very well, but always
felt he was a very kind and gentle person.  Our thoughts are with the family at this
most difficult time.
The Marshalls
 
*I am so sorry to hear of Jeff's illness and passing. I have not seen
him for many years but remember him fondly from growing up in Culver. 
The world truely lost someone special.
Deepest Sympathy,
Sara (Baker) Russel
 
*Saddness fills our hearts.Jeff was a jolly,kind man. I work at Nappanee Base
in the office. Although I only knew him for a short time when he worked for
Tricounty.I remember him as always being happy. He will be missed.
God Bless You,
Mary
Tricounty Ambulance
 
*Here's a photo of the Culver EMS I took last month — thanks to an 
invite by Tim McCarthy. We'll miss you Jeff.
Maggie Nixon

 
 
*I arrived at work this morning to the news of Jeff's passing. It's a
dreary Wednesday morning, rainy and dark. The one thing that brightens
my morning is it remember Jeff's smile and sense of humor, sometimes a
bit off-the-wall, but, always smiling. He will be missed by many! Rest
in peace, my friend. :-) We now have yet another Angel watching over us :-)
Ms. Chris Sheppard
Culver Academy Post Office Supervisor
 
*Dear Willhite Family, Our deepest sympathies are with you at this very difficult
time. We will continue to send our prayers your way. To have just seen him last
Friday at the Deli smiling and living life.... This is hard to believe. Sincerely
John and Michelle Allyn and Family 
 
*Jeff's family, I am sorry to hear about your loss, Jeff will be greatly missed! You
will be in our thoughts and prayers! 
God Bless.
Jerry Kisela & Family
Culver Academies
 
*My four year old, Dorothy, told me about a week ago that she likes big hugs from
Jeff the best because she got to smell like his "nice perfume" for the rest of the
day.  I know now that none of us are going to take hugs from the people we love for
granted anymore.  You were a dear, sweet man, Jeff, and we will miss you so very
much.  Henry, Gladys, Lee and Mike please know that we are thinking of you all the
time, and smiling through tears over some wonderful memories of your son and
brother. 
Keri, John and Dorothy Karris
 
*Hello Willhite family. I am extremely sorry to hear about Jeff's
condition this morning. I know you are all very busy but if you can
spare a minute please keep me informed of his progress. Growing up with
Jeff reminds me of so many great memories that I can't even begin to
list them all. If there is anything I can do, please let me know. I will
pray for Jeff and you all. 
Chris Robertson
 
*GLADYS' HENRY, LEE AND MIKE PLEASE KNOW THAT LANCE AND I ARE 
INDESCRIBABLY SORRY FOR ALL OF YOU AND WE WANT YOU ALL TO KNOW THAT JEFF 
WILL BE REMEMBERED IN OUR PRAYERS. JEFF WAS SUCH A HAPPY-GO-LUCKY GUY 
WHO KNEW EVERYONE AND WAS KNOWN BY EVERYONE AND HE WILL BE SORELY 
MISSED. I'M SURE ALL OF YOUR HAPPY MEMORIES WILL PULL ALL OF YOU 
THROUGH THIS DIFFICULT TIME. LYNN AND LANCE OVERMYER AND FAMILY
 
*On behalf of the Communications Department we send our prayers and
condolences to the Willhite family. This is a tragic loss to our
community, since Jeff has not only touched the lives or our team, but
the students, staff, and faculty throughout. We will miss Jeff, and pray
that God's Hand of Peace be among the family during this time.
Bill Hargraves CMA '77
 
*To the entire Willhite family,
My deepest sympathy for your loss. Jeff will be sorely missed as he
touched so many lives. Words cannot express the sorrow and sadness.
Wishing you God's peace. 
Gail Busam
Assistant Administrator Operations
Culver Academies 
 
*My name is Gene Painton and I have known Jeff for several years. 
Working with him on the Lake Patrol and knew 
him from the Academy. Jeff was always there for any help we needed. 
With a smile on his face that was bigger than
he was. We'll miss him and not forget him. Our thoughts and prayers 
with you his family, 
Sincerely, Gene and Linda Painton
 
*My deepest sympathies to the Willhite family.
Gale Craft
 
*It is with great sadness that we have all lost such a wonderfull human-Jeff and I
tried to getogether a couple of weeks ago in Chicago but a scheduling conflict
prevented it- I now truely regreat it!!! Jeff watched after the five Flangan Culver
Graduates and Kelley the last Flanagan now a Junior- It gave the children and Connie
and I great comfort to know that Jeff was always there for them in case of need-He
was truley a great compassionate person and will always be remember by the Flanagan
Family- His passing is a great loss to all of us and he will always be in our
prayers- Tom and Connie Flanagan
 
*Dear Willhite family -
With a deep sense of shock and sorrow, I learned this morning about
Jeff's passing. My sincere sympathy and prayers go out to you in these
darkest of days.
The one ray of undeniable hope, though, is the realization that Jeff
touched an amazing number of lives for the better. The circle of people
he encountered, worked with, and helped, is vast. We can count
ourselves privileged to have known him - and those memories will forever
be a part of us.
Sincerely,Dave Sampson
Humanities Department
Culver Academies 
 
*I am so sadden by Jeffs passing. I just learned this news early this morning. Jeff's
smile and willing to get involved will be greatly missed. Please continue to let us
know info on his service etc. I am truely so sadden this morning. What a fun guy he
was..... If there is anything I can do to help the family please let me know. Pam
Baker
 
*I have known Jeff since 8th grade. He used to hang out with Todd Tusing and I all
the time. I would see him in town, usually in the early morning as I would get gas
or coffee, and he always had a smile on his face and and a big "hello". He will be
missed dearly.
Sincerely, Pam (Zehner) Craft
 
*I am so sorry for your loss. I knew Jeff as a student and he was a joy to know. My
thoughts are with you and the family.
Sincerely,
Helen Drew
 
*Lee,
We were so sorry to hear of Jeff''s passing away. It was such a shock
to read the news. Our sympathy goes to your family at this very
difficult time.
Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Krista & Bill Furry
 
*Dear Lee and Family,
May your spiritual beliefs be a comfort at this time and may God's grace
be with you.
Always know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Mary C. Kunkle
Administrative Assistant
Communications
 
*I first met Jeff last year at Gladies Deli. I remember whenever I would see him in
there or around town he would always just say Angie. And in return I would just say
Jeff. And then we would ask each other how each was doing. When ever I would see him
and I had my youngest child with me no matter how many times I would tell Jeff his
name it was always hi buddy how are you. And my little one is only one so he would
just look at him like he was speaking some foreign language and we would just laugh
about it. I worked with him on Friday and we had some good laughs. I am so sorry to
hear of his passing and will always remember his smile and his great attitude.
Henry, Gladys, Lee and Mike are in my thoughts and prayers. 
Angie Graham and family
 
*Is there anybody that can completely define Culver without Jeff's face in
the picture? I think he personified the good things of what a small town was
all about. Jeff was friendly to everyone he met and helped when he could. To
balance his proper side, he could gave as good as he could take a joke, and
preferred to give it. Those who received are smiling and nodding right now.
I knew Jeff well enough to know some of his troubles and I shared with him a
book full of memories. Things don't seem fair at times, but I think the best
thing I can do is keep my head up, carry on and honor his spirit by finding
a little bit of trouble. My friend would have loved it!
Doug Baker
 
*Dear Lee, Mr. & Mrs. Willhite, & family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Jeff was a wonderful person, so full of
life and willing to help whenever anyone asked.
Please know that if you need anything all you have to do is ask!!!
I remembered that the last time I talked to Jeff I made him laugh (easy
to do) with my mix-up and Lee got a chuckle out of it too.
You are in our thoughts,
Jill and Barb Neidlinger
 
*To the entire Willhite family, My deepest sympathy for your loss. Jeff will be
greatly missed by so many. Words can not express the sorrow and sadness. You will
be in my thoughts and prayers. Kirsten Shipley
 
*I was so completely shocked when I went to your link you posted. I had no idea this
happened of course. His family are in my thoughts and prayers. He was a wonderful
man.
Tammy Stockton
 
*Henry, Gladys and Family,
I can hardly type this for the tears that are running down my face. I 
remember when Gladys was pregnant with Jeff, pushed him around in a 
stroller. . .watched all these children grow into productive citizens. 
The town of Culver will be lessened by the passing of a member of this 
wonderful family. We love all of you so. We will keep you in our 
thoughts and prayers always,
The Kose Family. . . Marie Kose, Betty Knaus and Linda Hall
 
*I am so sorry to hear about Jeff. What a shock! I probably saw him at some
point during most of my trips to Culver, including the time I broke my leg.
He wasn't on call that night, but he came over to check on me, and got there
before the ambulance did. He was such a nice guy. What a loss!
My condolences to his family, and to all of his friends. He will be missed.
Lucinda Miller
 
*Jeff was always a happy smiling guy. In all of the years I worked
summer camp he could always be counted on to help when needed. We have
lost a beautiful person with a wonderful soul. God Bless the entire
Willhite and Culver Academy family. Jolinda Lucas
 
*Dear Henry, Gladys, Mike, & Lee,
My Mom just sent me the link to Jeff's website this afternoon and I just wanted to
express my deepest condolences and sympathy to your entire family.  I didn't know
Jeff like I knew Mike & Lee, but I do remember him and that he was the baby. 
Always, always a smile on his face.  I'm so sorry for your loss.  You will be in my
prayers.....
Marcie (Upchurch)
Laugh til it hurts. 
Hope til it works. 
Love til it fills you. 
Live til it kills you. 
 
*I am so sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. We had lost touch over the past few years
but he was and is always in my heart. He has been a great friend to me over the
years and I will cherish every moment we had. Love Cory Reiss
 
*Hi Mike, Lee, Gladys and Henry,
I just heard about what happened to Jeff and can't tell you how sorry I am
to hear it. I know things must be terrible and the only thing I can offer
at this time is to tell you how much your Son, brother meant to me. Jeff is
one of the first and best childhood friends that I remember having and
couldn't even begin to count the hours that we spent together either at your
home or ours or running around the town. Every memory I have of him is with
that giant smile that he always seem to have and his unforgettable laugh.
Even all the years that we spent together through school and soccer, I can't
remember one time that he wasn't a bright spot in any day. He and I seemed
inseparable for most of my childhood and always expected to see him when I
would make my visits back to Culver. It was like we didn't skip a beat and
were back to being great old friends again. I am very sorry for your loss
and just wanted to say Jeff will always be remembered and loved by many.
Sincerely,
Justin Ash
 
*Dear Willhite Family,
Please accept my deepest sympathy in your time of sorrow. We all lost
a great person.
Sincerely yours,
Jane Grund
 
*Have you ever JUST met someone but feel like you have known them forever? I just
met Jeff last week over the phone and in person on Saturday. We talked all week on
the phone and were trying to figure out a good day to meet in person. When we met
Saturday, he gave me the BIGGEST and most wonderful that hug I will never forget. He
took me out to dinner and was a gentleman the whole time-which I have never
experienced. He was SO easy to talk to. I was looking foward to getting to know
him better. Our second date was Sunday. I came over to just relax with him after
work and watch a movie together, nothing fancy, just spend time together and talk
and get to know one another better. Two hours later, I am calling an ambulance
because he sarted coughing and could not breathe. It breaks my heart that one
minute we are sitting there cuddling on his couch watching a movie and two days
later, he is gone. I feel VERY lucky to have met Jeff. AND his family, who are the
most wonderful people I have EVER encountered. They allowed me to stay at the
hospital for which I am grateful for. I could never have just sent him away in the
ambulance and went home. I HAD to go to see if he was okay, and when he wasn't, I
could not bring myself to leave. I know in my heart that he would have stayed with
me as well if the situation was reversed. I feel very blessed to have met him and
his family. My heart goes out to his family and friends. I am very sorry for their
loss. And I am sorry I could not get to know him better. But from the Jeff I met
and spent time with, he was an extrodinary person. And he will be missed . God
Bless him and his family. 
Deborah McDonald-new and forever friend
 
*Dear Willhite family:
On behalf of Coca-Cola and the Ellert and Severns families we are deeply
saddened for your loss. Jeff was a good friend and always had a way of
making people feel good. His optimistic and cheerful disposition was
contagious! Our thoughts and prayers will be with you during this difficult
time. Please let us know if we can do anything for your family.
Susan and Francis
 
*Lee, Mike, Gladys & Henry Willhite Family
Words cannot express the sorrow in our hearts for your loss of Jeff. 
Your family is such a nice piece of the Culver Puzzle. You all are 
admired and respected and loved! Jeff will be missed by so many! 
Jeff was someone to be proud of, and likewise I'm sure he was very 
proud of his family! You all will be in our prayers. In my memories of 
you three boys.........BIG HAPPY SMILES.... and that laugh! Like it 
should be between brothers! You all are very lucky to have had each other!
Kimberly & John Rose
 
*Dear Willhite Family, we just heard the news about Jeff....my daughter said just the
other day after finding out about his illness, how Culver wouldn't be the same
without Jeff...how he has become a "Culver Icon"....that you have, Jeff. We will
never forget you. The times you came over to our house to undoubtly get into some
sort of mischief, the visits at Family Dollar....always with a smile on your face
and an under-the-breath giggle! You will be sorely missed, my friend. God Bless you,
Jeff, and God Bless your wonderful family.
sue buschman
 
*Gladys, Henry, Mike and Lee,
I know I speak for the entire Stallings family when I say that we've 
lost an adopted son and brother. We will never forget the baseball 
games in the field between our homes (Lee kept hitting the ball into 
the street for a home run), Jeff arriving first at the fire station 
every time the whistle blew and the knock on the door the moment we 
arrived into town with Jeff " just checking in". What a wonderful 
kid he was and a vibrant, caring and joy filled man he became. We 
will all consider ourselves blessed to have known and loved him and 
will keep Jeff and all of the Willhites in our prayers.
Melanie Stallings
 
*I am sorry for your loss. I meet Jeff a few years ago when we worked at TCA and have
had the pleasure of remaining friends throughout the years. Jeff was a great friend
and co-worker. He always had a smile on his face and could make you laugh under any
circumstance. Jeff is loved and will greatly be missed by all he has touched. You
are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless. 
with deepest sympathy
Jenn Hershberger 
 
*Patty informed me of Jeff's death. I am so saddened by the news. It 
was such a short time ago that he and Lee were here in Washington DC. 
I am so happy that they had that time together. They were so 
enthusiastic about their trip.
I shall always remember the fun that Jeff and Mike had each summer 
in Culver. It seemed like I couldn't see Mike without Jeff. What 
great friends they were.
I send to all of you my sincerest sympathy for your enormous loss. 
May the thoughts of his smiling face bring you some comfort in the 
days ahead.
Most sincerely yours,
Mary Donovan (Patty Stallings sister)
 
*You all are in our thoughts and prayers. He will be missed by many.
J.B. and Jean E. Overmyer
 
*To the Wilhite Family--- 




 
 
We express our deepest sympathy to your family in this time of sorrow.  Jeff will be greatly missed in the Culver community. 
The Van Horn Family 
Connie and Ron 
Eric, Gunnar and Lindsey 
Ron, Vilma, Kevin and Abby 
Jennifer and Aaron Talcott
 
*I knew of Jeff from when he was a security guard, at SJRMC-Plymouth Campus. I
didn't get a chance to really know him.
My father and mother (Ron and Vicki Armstead) knew him pretty good. My Dad Ron, (Or
as most of you who know him know him in Culver as "ARMY" ) works for the town of
Culver. They cannot say enough good about Jeff. They say he was always so bubbly,
goodmood, kindhearted, and so friendly. My parents moved to Culver 5 years ago. From
their 30 some years in Lakeville, after my husband Steve Lehiy died 6 years ago. My
Dad ("Army") and my husband Steve Lehiy HAVE NEVER MET A STRANGER, so it was of no
surprise to me that my father had made friends with Jeff. If Steve was still alive
and had met Jeff, I am positve from all the nice things I have heard and read about
Jeff, that Jeff and Steve would have hit it off as friends too. My parents are
awesome people, its no wonder they were friends with Jeff. They said he was an
awesome person. I wish I could have gotten to know him, like my parents did, and
all the other people who knew Jeff did. The Town of Culver has so many GREAT peop
 le. It sounds like Jeff was one of them. The residents of Culver, have had an ANGEL (my
husband, Steve Lehiy) watching over them for the last 6 years. Now they have 1 more,
Jeff. THIS TOWN KNOWS HOW TO RALLY WHEN A TRAGEDY LIKE THIS HAPPENS, they were
there for me and my son, Dylan Lehiy, and helped us get through our very difficult
time, I know they will be there for your family also. - GOD BLESS THIS FAMILY and
all the fine residents of Culver!!!! 
Janine Lehiy (former, 10 year Culver Resident, and I miss all of you!!!)
 
*I am so very sorry to hear about Jeff, please know your family is in my thoughts and
prayers. I have many fun memories from high school that won't be forgotten. I know
Jeff was well known and liked by everyone and he will be missed by all. 
Anne Harris Johnston 
 
*To the Willhite Family: It was just last Friday, Jeff was in CVS 
shopping with a big smile on his face. He will be missed by all who new 
him. He had such a great personality and always something possitive to 
say. Deb Overmyer
 
*When we gathered around to laugh and talk, a joke was normal. Jeff 
would always say with a smile and a laugh, "Sure, pick on the little 
guy." Jeff was no "little guy." he was always BIG, BIG in heart, BIG 
in laughter, and BIG in presence. To a "little guy" who made a BIG 
difference in our community through your service and a lasting 
impression on individuals through your smile, May the Lord look after 
you till we meet again to have another round of laughter, a few jokes 
and some "picking on the little guy." To the family of Jeff, may the 
Lord give you peace and comfort knowing that Jeff was a BIG guy to all. 
My Blessings, Ruth Dilts CUTEMS #19, and Friend
 
*Mr. & Mrs. Willhite, Mike and Lee-
My thoughts & prayers are with you. Jeff will be greatly missed by this community! 
Jennifer Van Horn 
 
*To the Willhite Family-
My deepest sympathies for your loss. 
Jennifer Stough
 
*Jeff and the Wilhite family
I've known Jeff for along time. I remember him coming down to the fire station for
firemen's fest wanting to help set up in the mornings as a kid. I am going to miss
the phone calls during the nascar races. We had some great times on and off
duty.Jeff has touched so many lives and was loved by so many. I really miss his
wassssup everytime he would call. We shared the same birthday and it will be
different now but i'll keep up the tradition. Our thoughts and prayers are with you
and your family. Jeff was also part of our ems family and will be missed.
Tim and Joy McCarthy and family
 
*I am so sorry Jeff will be greatly missed you are in our thoughts and prayers .I
remember about 19 years ago my son was in kindergarden and he was in soccer Jeff
helped out with my son Billys team I can still hear him say mom I wish I could play
as good as he does.   
Thoughts and Prayer, Kim  Milliser ems 24 and Family & Mark Rogers
 
*I am stunned and saddened to
learn of Jeff's death. I spent time with him on Friday night at The 
Academies' Auction. I was upset over something trivial and he made me 
laugh and realize it wasn't that important. I said good bye to him at 
the parade on Sunday and he teased me about something, as he always 
did. He always stopped to joke and laugh with me whenever we would see 
each other over the years. It seemed as if every time I was in 
Gladies, he would pop in to say hello. He was very, very special and 
will be sorely missed. Culver has lost a wonderful friend.
Sallie Jo and Chap Mitzell
 
*Dear Mike and Family,
Bus and I want to express our sympathy to you and your family on the 
passing of Jeff. We have read all the wonderful thoughts and comments sent to 
you and while we didn't personally know Jeff, I did know his smile as it was 
always evident. He was having such a good time at the Taste of Culver when 
we last saw him.
Mike, we miss having you live next door. You too were always so 
cheerful even when the Cubs lost. It is hard to fathom the events of the past 
few days but I hope that you have some comfort in knowing that Jeff was so 
loved by so many. 
Bus and Mary Jane Muehlhausen
 
*Willhite family:
I am so sorry for your loss. I have such fond memories of Jeff.
He will never be forgotten.
Carrie (Stoces) Heflick
 
*To the Willhite's I had many years of fond memories with Jeff and will miss him
greatly. He was a great individual that was caring and would always have a laugh
with you over something foolish or not. We are here if you need us and our prayers
and thoughts are with you. The Havron Family
 
*Our condolences are sent to Jeff's family. We are so sorry for your
loss, Jeff was a wonderful guy. 
Scott & Criston Zehner
 
*I am so shocked at what has happened to Jeff.  I hope and pray that he 
receives the best medical care and makes it through with no adverse 
residual effects. May God guide you and the physicians who are caring for Jeff.
Andrea Médard, RN 
CMA Health Center
 
*Dear Willhite Family:
I was so sad to hear of Jeff's passing. I wanted to offer my 
sincerest condolences for your loss.
My prayers are with you and your family.
Tony Straw 
 
*Dear Lee and Family
Words cannot express how we felt when we heard the news about Jeff. He
has been a friend to our entire family for several years. We sat last
night and reminisced about all of our memories of Jeff some as recent as
last week. He will be very missed on campus and in the community.
Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers and we are here to help
in any way we can.
With Love
Mike, Liz, Nathan and Chris Adams
 
*Mike and Family
So sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you.
He was a great guy and will be missed by all who's lives he touched.
Kelly Robbins
 
*My name is Steve Reid. I worked with Jeff at the academy where I worked in
the Power House for 4 years. Lee will remember me.
My son, Steve Jr. Now works at the dining hall and txt messaged me about
Jeff.
SUCH A LOSS! 
A SUPER guy, so fun to talk to, honest, easy to get along with......a great
guy all around.
I WILL MISS his smile and laugh that I enjoyed when seeing him in Culver.
God Bless you and all of yours. Your LOSS is heart felt and my prayers for
all are included here with my own feelings.
Steve
 
*Willhite Family-
The amazing outpouring of love and support serves as a testament to Jeff's
incredible influence on all of our lives, and the love we all have for your
whole family. 
Love, Dawn Minas & Larry Brockey
 
*We are so sorry to hear of Jeff's passing.  Having spent 5 years as a Culver Academy
family, we cannot think of any time that the security car would not drive right up,
window open and a smiling Jeff greet us.  Little did we know our handshake and
"Thank You, Jeff" on Saturday would be our last.  We all share a heavy heart at this
time.  Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to the Willhite family.   You are in our
thoughts and prayers.  And from all of us, Thank You, Jeff. 
Andy, Sharlene, Christopher and Cailtin Miclot 
 
*Dear Willhite Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you through this loss. Jeff is one person
you couldn't be in a bad mood around, he always put a smile on your face no
matter what. We just pasted him last week in the car, and my son Garrett says
there is Jeff and rolled down the window to give him a big wave. Then he went
on to say how he missed living in town, because when we where out in the yard
Jeff would always stop and talk. Sometimes we would be out there for hours
talking, we will sure miss him. God Bless
Tim, Brandy & Garrett Reinhold
 
*We were so sorry to hear of Jeff's passing.He was a wonderful person who 
always had a smile for everyone.He will be greatly missed by all.
Ron(Army,Grandpa) and Vicki Armstead
 
*I suspected when Jeff was just a kid (he was in my son Larry Brockey's 
class) that he would grow to be an incredible adult. He proved me 
right. I'm so happy that I got to see him last Saturday and he flashed 
that smile of his and asked how I was. He always made me smile---even 
when I didn't feel like it---and always made me feel like a good 
friend. My heart goes out to you and Culver. Things won't be the 
same. Linda Boswell
 
*Dear Willhite Family,
I am truely sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. He was a wonderful person that was a
friend to everyone. Jeff's outgoing personality, kindness, big smile and laughter
will carry on in memories forever. God Bless.
Matt and Carla Pratt
 
*I haven't talked to jeff in length for years but it still seems as though
a huge part of my life has gone away. I can't think of any part of my
highschool years and not see jeff right there. He was one of my best
friends. I stop and laugh because if seems like the majority of our time
was spent traveling to other towns looking for the next hot girls. The
only thing we worried about back then was what timed I'd pick him up for
school or where we'd go the next weekend. I guess when people grow in
their own lives, it becomes easier to lose touch with the people who made
you who you are to begin with. What a sad truth.
Lee, Mike, Gladys, and Henry, I dont't have the words to tell you how sorry 
I feel for yours and the entire world's loss. I feel the same feeling as the
day I found out that another one of my friends,Todd Tusing, had died. 
Just plain sadness! I wish I hadn't lost touch but I'll always look back 
and laugh at what we were when he was with us. Be proud of what he was and that he Made
me and all those around him better.
God be with you Wilhite family,
Sincerely,
Tom Coffey
 
*I just found out this afternoon about Jeff's illness and passing. It's
been along time since I've seen or talked to Jeff however he's never
been forgotten. He was a great guy & friend growing up and I know will
be missed by many. My sincerest condolences to the whole family.
-Heidi (Tanner) Haywood 
 
*I was so saddened to hear the news about Jeff. Jeff was one of the first
people I met as part of CUTEMS and he was such a welcoming person. He was
always such a fun guy to be around, making everyone laugh and making great
Jokes. My thoughts and prayers to Jeff's family and the Culver community.
Brett R. Laronde, ATC, NREMT-B
mobile: 808.306.1739
Hawaii Athletic Trainers Association CEU Chair
American Heart Assoc. Training Center Faculty
 
*Dear Willhite Family; Only those who have lost a brother , sister, son 
or daughter, truly know how you feel, but many many many of us now know 
how it feels to loose a good friend, please have comfort in knowing you 
are not alone in this trying time. Jeff will be missed greatly and you 
will be in our thoughts and prayers,
Jeff Tina Chad Trent and Aaron Becker
 
*Dear Willhite's,
I am so sorry to hear about Jeff. He was a good friend to many of us. I know he will be missed.
Matt Benedict
 
*Dear Henry, Gladys, Lee & Mike,
Many, many years ago, I sat in the doctor's office and a beautiful 
young lady walked in carrying a tiny baby that was just a few weeks 
old. That woman was Gladys Willhite and that baby was Jeff. I had seen her come 
in at the Dining Hall to see her husband, whom I knew very well. I worked
with Henry, Mike then Lee at the Academy Dining Hall for many, many 
years and grew to love them all very, very much. Your entire family are
people who leaves such an impression on anyone they meet. I have 
laughed until I cried when Lee would tell me some funny story and Mike's 
eye's would get so big when I would tell him something. They have been friends of 
mine for many years. I did not know Jeff as well as I knew the other 
members of the family but what little I did know about him, I liked. He left a 
lasting impression on me, as well as the rest of his family. When I 
think of Jeff, I will think back to the first time I ever saw him, the cutest little baby 
ever, and I will think about what a wonderful, caring man he turned 
into. I just wanted the entire Willhite Family to know how very sorry we are about Jeff's 
passing, having gone through losing our son, we know how you are feeling
right now and we know it is a very dark, dark day. We will remember you 
in our prayers and thoughts and pray that God will get you through
this very trying time in all of your lives. God Bless You All!!!!
Ron & Donna Scott
 
*To Jeff's family.
I met Jeff a few years ago when he worked Tri-County Ambulance in Bremen. I work at
the Bremen Hospital and he would come in to visit or to bring patients and we would
talk. He always had a smile on his face and a kind word to say. 
He will be truly missed. Even though I only knew him through work he touched my
life. I can remember some good conversations we had together.
God Bless!! Just remember Jeff will always be looking down on us and guiding us in
the right direction. 
Amy Grove
 
*Willhite Family,
Jeff was a inspiration to everyone that knew him and will be greatly missed by all.
I just booked my flight for Jeff's services. I was speaking with Brandon Riester
tonight and we both agreed this should be the biggest funeral service ever in
Culver. Jeff knew everyone and was loved by all. I read every post on the website,
all 42 pages of them. This is a horrific loss you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Dan Slyh
 
*Willhite Family,
My heart goes out to all of you during this hard time. Jeff will definitely be 
missed. He was a great man and I'll miss seeing him around town all the time. 
The RootBeer Stand won't be the same without him. 
Best wishes,
Dana Keller
 
*So, my friends and I thought it would be a good idea to sled down devils 
backbone one day, and decided that a car hood would be the best sled available. 
We waited for the cover of darkness until we started. Only after two sleds 
down a spotlight was shown upon us and we heard "please approach the car". We 
all carried the hood up to Jeff, in which he asked "Is that a car hood boys?" 
After our obvious answer the only thing for him to do was laugh and send us 
back on our way. I thought it was very cool of Jeff to actually be a good 
security guard and a decent human being all at the same time. This sledding is 
a yearly tradition and I'm saddened he cannot be there to bust us again.
Kyle Sefchek
 

*When I arrived from Australia, Jeff was already one of Cindy's kids.

Then I got to meet him around the dining table one night and believe me, once met,
never forgotten
Jeff soon became an important part of my life, just as he had always been in the
lives of my wonderful wife Cindy and our other many, many other "kid's lives . 
Jeff enriched their lives, but I, as a latecomer in time , realized 15 years ago
just what Jeff had to offer the amazing extended family into which I had recently
been accepted.
I learned very early in my time in U.S.A. that there was one thing on which I could
always rely and that was Jeff' s sense of humor and his ability to make light of
some of some of our most trying situations.
I will never forget his first visit with us in St Petersburg, FL when we were
sitting outside the day he arrived when I thought we were hearing fireworks and
Jeff said "that is not fireworks those are gun shots!
When we all woke up the next day we were informed, on every channel, about the St
Petersburg riots!!
A couple of visits later, Jeff and his lady of the moment were with us on our boat
on July 4th to enjoy the fireworks when a storm cane through, another boat broke
anchor, set us adrift and we ended up on the Seawall downtown St Petersburg! Jeff
was not as panicked as his lady friend, but he did ask Cindy how many life jackets
we had on board. (obviously, as a responsibly Captain I had enough for everyone on
board and three and three extras.
Cindy, always being one to make light of a testing situation, simply stated that we
had 2, one for me and one for Marcus!!! Jeff almost lost it, until I let him in
the facts .
Cindy and I have so many precious memories from the influence that Jeff had on our
lives that, although he is gone, he will NEVER be forgotten.
There are so many stories we could share, but at this point, we would rather ask you
all to join us in a moment of silent prayer.
If your faith is as strong as ours then you know that Jeff is at peace with our Maker.
Gone, but NEVER forgotten! We love you Jeff.
Cindy & Marcus Tilley
St Petersburg FL. 33711
727 867 4043
 
*Jeff has been a bright spot in my memory since high school. Just as others have
said, everyone knew his smile, and felt his warmth. It is times like this that
remind me to keep in touch with those who've been important in my life. I wish I
kept better contact with Jeff through the years. I will miss him.
Becky (Bodine) Maranto
Class of 1990
 
*October 10, 2008
To the Family of Jeffrey Willhite,
The Officers and members of the Lowell Volunteer Fire Department join in
extending heartfelt sympathy to you and your family at this time of sorrow.
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult
time.
Best regards,
Dwight 'IKE' Rench
Fire Chief
Lowell Volunteer Fire Department, Inc.
 
*Dear friends...Like so many other people, I am extremely sorry for your
loss. Everyone I know who knew Jeff thought the world of him, which is
a claim I can make with very few others. One thing that really stood
out to me when we dropped by yesterday was the degree of courage,
strength, and faith your family possesses. What a privilege it is for
me to have you as friends. Tom and Carol Buchanan.
 
*Hi, I did not know Jeff. I read a little about him from an email that was sent by the
state to other people who work in EMS. I am very, very sorry to hear that he has
passed away. He sounds like a wonderful person from the little I read. I know you
all are having a really hard time right now. I wanted to express my condolences. I
will keep your family in my prayers.
Sincerely, Angie
 
*As we navigate life's path, too often we simply put our lives on cruise
and forget to slow down to enjoy and appreciate the moments around us.
Sometimes these rare moments that cause us to pause are places that
capture our imagination; sometimes they are mere moments in time that
cause us to stop and reflect; sometimes, if we are lucky, these moments
are times well spent with good friends. Evidenced by the community's
outpouring of compassion and sympathy, Jeff Willhite was one of these
individuals who was uniquely able to reach out to us, slow us down, and
focus us on the importance of these moments.
Jeff was my friend and my colleague. I will miss his smile, his
endearing wit, and his infectious laugh. I will forever find peace,
though, as I enjoy moments of rest in the memories of our good times
spent together.
Tom Thornburg
Culver Academies
Culver-Union Township EMS
 
*I'm very sorry for your loss.  I didn't know Jeff well, but we hung out a few times
when I was in high school or back from college on breaks. He was always a positive,
upbeat person, and he even appears (though not by name) in a poem I wrote as "a
friend" I visited when on a break from college. I must have written this poem eight
years after I had last seen Jeff, but I mention it to say that even then, he was
someone who still figured into my thoughts.
You will be in my thoughts at this difficult time. Know that Jeff touched many
people's lives, and that he will be greatly missed by so, so many.
My sympathies,
Shaindel Beers
 
*I have read the amazing and wonderful tributes to Jeff. I was so
shocked that we lost him this week. A couple of weeks ago I was talking
to him when he was on duty on campus about some mischievous cadets and
now he is in heaven helping up there!
I will never forget when he helped one of my students when I was a
counselor in CGA. She fainted at the Iron Gate Ceremony on a hot May
day. Jeff rushed to her aid and treated her with such compassion and
attentiveness. We were both grateful!!
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the entire Willhite family. Although
we were only privileged to have Jeff here a short time, he did make a
difference in so many people's lives!
Thinking of you all, Lynn Rasch CGA'76
Assistant Dean of Girls
Culver Academies
 
*To the entire Wilhite Family-
Upon receiving word of Jeff's passing, I am incredibly saddened. My thoughts and
prayers are with all of you as you endure this very difficult loss. It has been many
years since my life in Culver and too long since I last saw Jeff. When I was growing
up in Culver, 'Jeff Wilhite' was a name in the community that his friends, teachers
and all of our parents knew and trusted! I will never forget his ever-present
bright, smile and eternal optimism-he was eager to be everyone's friend, and I think
he was a friend to everyone who knew him. I remember him walking down the street,
blocks away, already waving and saying "hello"-wanting to strike up a conversation
or just to see "what was happening " He was filled with kindness and extended it at
every opportunity. Reading the thoughts his friends and coworkers sent him, during
his fight, and to all of you since this tragedy began-it's no wonder he grew into a
man so willing to give so much of himself to others. I know that he was 
 deeply cared for and appreciated by so many and hope that may be some consolation,
as you begin healing. With My Deepest Sympathy, Stacey Richards
 
*We walk with God not to understand but to trust. Thank you for giving us Jeff. He
will be missed this short time on earth, but always be in our hearts forever. He
made everyone around him smile and i will always have a smile when i think of him. 
Doug Good
Argos EMS
 
*Dear Willhite Family-
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.  Jeff has been a great friend for a lot of
years.  We will miss his upbeat personality and great sense of humor.
Sincerely,
Ryan, Amalia, Austin & Tyler Richey
 
*My name is Teresa Miller. I am Millie Sytsma's youngest sister. I met Jeff
on several occasions. Both my husband, Dan, and I liked him and enjoyed his
company very much. I know Millie and Rich are very deeply saddened by
Jeff's sudden death, as are we. Our deepest sympathies go out to you and
your family.
With Sincere Sympathy,
Dan and Teresa Miller
 
*To the Willhite Family,
I received a phone call from Chuck Dilts a short while ago informing of the loss of
Jeff due to medical complications brought on by heart failure.  I can't begin to
express my sadness and tremendous feeling of loss. 
I met both Jeff and Chuck when I returned to Culver as the senior counselor for
Naval 2 in the summer of 2001.  Since that time I have spent many occasions visiting
and riding with both of them when I was in town, or working at the academy during
the summer.  As an EMT and a deputy sheriff I shared many things in common with
them.
This past summer was no different.  I stayed in the motel and taught in the campus
gym.  I visited with Lee and enjoyed a great lunch in your down town delie with Jeff
and Chuck.  We were good friends and shared a lot of laughs together.  Jeff and
Lee's father ran the academy dining hall when I was a midshipman in Naval 1 during
the 1960s.  The great sense of humor and warm interpersonal skills jeff shared with
all who knew him were a clear indication of what he received from his parents; they
will be dearly missed. 
You are all in my heart and prayers, 
Sincerely,
Mike Sullenger, Major, USAF Retired
Associate Professor TSTC, Harlingen Texas
Chief Instructor, American Karate System
www.americankaratesystem.org 
 
*Hello everyone.
This is Randi Wade (OVERLEY)
I wanted to drop a line and let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with your
family. I was very sad to hear about this. I am so sorry but I won't be able to
attend the services due to I live in Tennessee. I found out a few weeks ago that I
have cancer so I will be out on medical leave effective 10-31-08 due to surgery. The
Willhite family brings joy to me and brings back a lot of wonderful memories. It was
a pleasure growing up with you all and having you as a neighbor.
I called Shelli and Gary Lee. I am not sure if they can make it to the services
because they both have failing health.
GOD BLESS YOU ALL,
Randi Wade (OVERLEY)
 
*Willhite Family,
Gary Lee Overley wanted me to re-send you an email letting you know that he is so
sorry to hear about this. He will do some praying for your family.Shelli stated she
was going to try and call. I know she was very sad to hear the news.
Gary Lee stated he is sorry that he won't be able to come to the services as I
stated in the last email. You all will be in our thoughts and prayers.
God Bless You!
Randi Wade (Overley)
Gary Overley (Overley)
Shelli Bryan (Overley)
 
*I was so sorry to hear about Jeff today. He was one of the few people that made my
past summer at Culver enjoyable, and was a genuine friend. Please know that my
prayers are with you, and thank you for sharing Jeff with us.
Sincerely, 
Lauren Fontaine
"Keep your fears to yourself, but share your courage with others." - Robert Louis
Stevenson
 
*We are deeply sorry about Jeff’s passing. We have known Jeff since he 
was a child. His attitude was always sweet, jovial, and caring.
Jeff’s work with the Lake Patrol and the EMT’S provided great support to 
the community. Several people said they felt better when Jeff was with 
the EMT’S when they were picked up.
He will be sorely missed.
J. C. & & Olive Beck (who are in Miller’ Merry Manor) sent their regards.
With Deep Sympathy,
Janet (Beck) Baker and Al Sytsma
 

* Henry, Gladys, Lee and Mike,

As we all know, Jeff was an exceptional young man. He loved to be in the action and was always there for us when we needed help. This was true both at his full time job as Security at the Academy and his full time love as an EMT with the ambulance service. He always made time for us, whether we were working a big event at Culver or at an ambulance scene caring for patients.

I have known Jeff all of his life, but got to know him better when he started as a driver for the ambulance service when he was twenty. We all encouraged Jeff to take the EMT class because we could see from the way he treated patients he would be excellent and he was. He was compassionate, caring and was never afraid to jump in and help. After receiving his EMT certification he worked at several area ambulance services and made friends at all those departments. He still helped his own community by continuing to volunteer in Culver during his time off. He was there when my mother was ill and came over at a run when my sister broke her leg and also when Aunt Ruth fell shortly before her passing. Whether or not he was on duty he was always ready to respond to any emergency. Jeff started working at the Academy with Security part time and became full time shortly there after. He soon became an integral part of our department. Jeff never knew a stranger and it always amazed me that he could meet someone once and become good friends in an instant. He had that personality and truly loved people.

Jeff would call to keep me advised of significant happenings at the Academy during his shift. I remember one call when a car hit Logansport Gate. After he discovered that no one was injured in the car or on campus, he called and just kept saying “You have got to come in and see this, it is unbelievable, just unbelievable. I can’t describe the damage, you have to see this.” He was right, half of the gate was blown apart from the impact and the bricks, large parts of the wall and limestone caps were scattered 50 plus feet away. After that time and other amazing incidents that seemed to happen only during his shift he was dubbed the “magnet”. He would call and let me know what was going on and say, laughing, I am just a magnet, why did this have to happen on my shift? What he may not have known was no matter what happened he could handle it well.

Many years ago, when Jeff was on duty over a holiday I invited him to dinner with my family for lasagna and that started a trend. After that if I made lasagna and he found out that I had not asked him over, his look of disappointment was more than I could handle. I invited him as often as I could and will never fix lasagna again without thinking of Jeff. His enjoyment of life will be missed, his laughter and jokes will be missed, his energy will be missed and now there is indeed an empty spot in the world that will never be filled.

With love for all Jeff’s family,

Sally Ricciardi

 
* To the Wilhite family -
I just wanted to share a story about Jeff with you: 
At Culver this past year, I was staying with my Mom in one of the motel rooms on
campus. When the screen door had to be replaced, it was Jeff who came by to
check it out and see what needed to be done. Sometime during the conversation,
we decided that it would be a wonderful prank if we put a mound of caution tape
across the doorway, as a surprise for my Mom. 
The trouble was, neither of us had any caution tape on hand. 
For the rest of the summer, the inside joke upon seeing one another was, "Didja
find any?".
I looked forward to seeing him on campus, as he always had a laugh and a warm
smile ready. He will be dearly missed. It is comforting to know, though, that
he gave so much joy to so many people while he was here. I think he'd be
pleased to know that he helped as many people as he did.
My and my family's thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sincerely,
Lauren Fontaine
 
* Dear Willhite Family,
We are so sorry & saddened to learn about Jeff's passing. My husband, Jeff, had
enjoyed his friendship over many summers at Culver. I & my children came to know
him during the past few summers there as well. Not only was he the type of friend
we all hope to have, he always seemed to know just when to show up to offer help,
support, & keep us all feeling protected . As my husband was not able to be at
Culver this summer due to deployment with the Army, we sincerely appreciated Jeff's
diligent watch over me & my children. He always was ready to help, share a joke, or
just take the time to ask how we were "getting along," & then really listened to
the answer. He was a wonderful man. We miss him. 
We're praying for God's grace & peace for your family & those he touched. When
sorrow is overwhelming for all those who knew & loved Jeff, may God surround them
with strength to help them grieve & remember. We pray also that God releases Jeff's
loved ones from regrets, & keeps them close to all that was good about him. May He
help them take care of themselves, & give themselves time to recover but never to
forget Jeff, blessing us all with the love, encouragement, & support of friends.
In His love & service,
Susan Fontaine, Major Jeffrey D. Fontaine
 Lauren, Carol, & Dirk 
 
*It is with profound sadness that I learn of Jeff's death. I miss him
terribly already.
We all receive those forwarded emails that speak of taking time for those
people we care about and never really think that it applies to us - it's
always somebody else. Well, it's not always somebody else. Today it is us.
During my very brief pilgrimage to Culver this summer, Jeff went out of his
way to come see me. I am so thankful that he did as I had missed connecting
with him. We had a wonderful visit catching up about work, our families,
the challenges we face separately and together. We always enjoyed spending
time with each other. Little did we know - in fact, we had no idea, that it
would be the last time we'd see each other.
When I first learned who Jeff was, my affinity for him started even before I
actually met him - because I knew his father Henry -- who had influenced me
as a youngster. I met Henry as a student 38 years ago and our friendship
continued as I returned to Culver as a young adult. I mentored with Henry
as did so many other students.
And so it was that Jeff and I learned much from each other as we sought each
other's counsel. We shared similar values and beliefs and valued each
other's thoughts.
So, tonight I raise a glass to honor Jeff, celebrate his life, his noble
service to his community and his fellow man.
Here's to you Jeff: I am grateful to have known you and am very proud to
call you my friend.
MAJ Jeff Fontaine USAR
 
*Jeff was one of those people who had the unique ability to make us feel
special and appreciated. I always knew that Jeff was glad to see me. He
greeted me with a boisterous hello, a kiss on the cheek and a hug. He
expressed a genuine interest in my activities and truly listened. To be
around him was to be uplifted. How blessed we are to have known him. He
will be missed but he will continue to lift my spirits every time I
think of him.
Julie Thornburg
The Culver Academies
 
*Dear Henry, Gladys, Mike and Lee,
Doug and I are thinking of you all during this difficult time.
Our families have been friends (neighbors) for many years and we have
fond memories of working with Mike at the Academy and
having fun around town. Jeff will be missed by the entire
Culver Community but never forgotten.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you
Doug and Shan Farmer
 
*Just wanted to send a note to express our sadness over the sudden loss of Jeff. To
my classmate Lee (CCJSHS Class of 87), brother Mike, and parents Gladys and Henry,
we offer our most sincere condolences. We are saddened and shocked by the news, and
our thoughts are with you at this time. In the past year, I have returned to Culver
after 20 years away; some of the first people I ran into in Culver were Jeff and Tim
McCarthy, both of whom I remembered from our school days. I really enjoyed taking a
moment to reconnect, and both Jeff and Tim made me feel immediately welcome. Back
again in Culver, I became accustomed to seeing Jeff drive his Lake Patrol car past
our home, and it seems like only a week or two since I saw him last. Reading the
guest book entries was very touching; really a great tribute to Jeff, someone who
generously served the people of our community.
Don Baker
 
*To the Wilhite family.
I did not know Jeff very well, although each time he saw me in town he spoke
to me and asked how things were going.
I extend my heartfelt sympathies for the loss of someone so young and full
of life. 
Although I cannot fully appreciate the heartbreak of your sudden loss, I do
understand, from experience, how devastating
the loss of someone so young can be. I pray each night that God will
comfort you and give you strength to face the future.
Winifred Joice
 
*Dear Willhite Family,
I am greatly sorry for your loss. I was shocked and saddened when I heard the news.
I could only picture Jeff smiling....he was ALWAYS smiling. I found this picture
that I took of him when we were in 7th grade. There he is just smiling away. The
sad news spread quickly from state to state. ( I live in Florida) . I had planned
to fly up for a few days but it didn't work out. The neat thing is that I have
talked with several good friends that I had lost touch with. I believe that there
is going to be quite a crowd gathered to show their love and support.
Jeff made an unforgetable impression on all of us. 
Class of 1990 
Loretta (Anderson) Barbee 
 
 
 
 
 
*Several years ago I had the privilege of working with Jeff at Tri County 
Ambulance. We worked together often and would even change our schedules 
around so that we could be partners. Jeff was so much fun to be around that 
when I was with him, it didn't even seem like work. He was a talented EMT 
and had a way of making his patients feel like they were the only reason he 
came to work that day. I was always confident when he was my partner that 
things would go smoothly, even when things got critical in the back of the 
truck, and he never let me down. I have missed him greatly since we stopped 
working together but I will be forever thankful for knowing him. He made 
this world a much more beautiful place just by being himself. Your family 
has been and will continue to be in my prayers. Kelly Simmons
 
*Dear Mrs Willhite, you may or may not remember me ...but several years ago I
contacted you and asked about how Jeff was doing and I never received a call back
from him. Life just has us busy like that. Anyway, I am sad to hear of his
passing. Please accept my sincerest condolences. I went to school with Jeff back
in the 1986/87 school year at Culver Jr/Sr high. He always had a smile on his face
and was a nice guy to be around. 
Sincerely and prayerfully, 
Michelle Robertson
 
*Lee, Mike, Gladys & Henry,
 Over 30 years ago my family decided to purchase a summer home in Culver. Little did
we know that along with that home would come the addition of five new members to our
family, our new neighbors, the Willhites. Jeff immediately took his place as my
second little brother, not that I was pleased about having another one at the time. 
 I can't remember a time when we were actually unpacked before Jeff was at our front
door ready and eager to play. I don't know how many times I had to tell him he
could not tag along with Sally Overmeyer and I while we were on the boat. More
often than not he would talk us into letting him come along for a ride. If a game
of kickball or baseball would begin, Lee would come out to score yet another home
run (I can't believe no windows were ever broken) and without ever boasting would
return to whatever he was doing prior. Mike would always give us a big smile and
wave as he was off. These three men are a testament to what wonderful parents
Gladys and Henry have been. No one could ask for more gracious and friendly
neighbors than the Willhites and the loss of Jeff is devastating. He will forever
remain in our hearts!
Sara (Stallings), Dean, Ashley, Valerie and Zachary Jones
 
*Jeff's family , 
 Shaun said: "Mom, Todd, Ryan, Jeff, Jimmie and I rode bicycles together before we ever went to
school.We played in the yard and at each other's houses.Jeff was just an all round
good guy and friend." This is what Shaun said when he heard that Jeff was ill. At a
very young 
age , Jeff became a part of our family. We cherish our memories.You're in our
prayers and God Bless You !
Hope Thomas , Jimmie Shepherd and Shaun Shepherd (classmate)
 
*My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I am a 2005 Culver graduate
and attended summer camp well before my high school years. The FIRST person I met on
campus and grew a friendship with was Jeff. Being a 13 year old in a foreign place
was very difficult and uncomfortable, and Jeff was there to help me. I talked to him
(and Lee) almost every day during my high school years, and I will always remember
the special bond Jeff had with both me, my mother Marjorie, and father Mark. He will
be missed dearly, but I was glad to see he was living his dream and making a
difference in both the Culver community and at the academy. 
Sincerely, 
Grant E. Stark 
CMA 05 
 
*I was talking with my sister Teri yesterday and informed her of 
Jeff's passing. She was kind enough to share one of her last memories 
of Jeff, which just made me laugh.
She was in extreme discomfort breathing and found out she had 
"walking pneumonia." While talking with Jeff, she was having a very 
hard time getting enough of the medication into her system. In pure 
Jeff fashion, he told my sister, "Just hit it like a bong!"... she 
got better.
Maggie Nixon
 
*Jeff was a wonderful man coming from a wonderful family. Our Son &
Daughter, Jeff and Christi grew up with Jeff. We all have fond memories of
Jeff as he grew up in good ole Culver.
May God Bless the Willhite Family
Dennis & Jolene Westafer